There is a simple formula for a viral mom post right now.
Have more than 1 boy and no girls.
List all the things people say to you in public about having all boys (you must be tired, your hands are full, they must keep you busy).
List all the ways having boys is awesome.
Bonus if you have an interaction with an older mother of all boys.
Yay moms of all boys.
This isn't going to be eloquent.
I'm a mom of all (four) boys.
I'm over the "mom of all boys" posts.
I'm kinda annoyed with the idea that all boys is any different than boys and girls, or all girls. Babies are babies, children are children. They are all loud. They all wake up at all hours. They all poop on the floor and put gross stuff in their mouth, sometimes in that order. In addition to being a mom of all boys and I've been in childcare for over 10 years, so I know what little girls are like. I've cleaned their poop off curtains too (shout out to Hailey).
But wait Cori, I've been a longtime follower (thanks!) and you said when you found out you were having a boy you were filled with a little dread.
You are right. I hate blood and I do think boys probably get stitches more. I'm not sure if that data has been compiled, but that is just my personal experience. So... that is that.
Also... they probably pee on the bathroom wall more.
... but other than that, if you have little kids in the house your hands are full. If you have any number of kids, even one, and you have hands... they will be full. Boys do not require more hugs, more nose wipings, more diaper changes. In my daycare I'm pulling little girls off bookshelves as often as little boys.
All moms of littles are tired.
All moms of littles are busy.
And so are the dads... shout out to them too.
I'm not buying into the weird comradery with having all boys as if we are experiencing anything harder than other moms. Like we have anything better than moms who have boys and girls, or just girls. These are cheap good feels... fluff pieces counting on getting lots of shares by other moms who just happen to conceive boys.
I do feel a little comradery with moms of all boys who might be a little afraid they will never know what it's like to have a daughter. Or moms with all girls who would like to know what it's like to raise a son. Those are genuine feelings, I get that. That, however, is different than the sentiments in these moms of all boys articles.
They are annoying.
Now I have to get back to having busy, full, tired hands.